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S-Bus in would be the S-Bus output from another device. Often times this might be the output from another redundant RX.
S-Bus out is the serial data output. Often this would be used as part of the serial data link (daisy chain) to the S-Bus servos.
I'm a bit lost as to the "were does the other end plug in". I think you might be best served looking up some old Futaba U-tube videos as to what S-Bus is and its intended usage.
Again if we knew what you were trying to do we might be better able to help.
All the best,
Konrad