Tim, your glider is not a warbird, it’s a lightly loaded thermal ship. As such, you need to control the flaps using the throttle stick. You don’t have the brakes on your car operated by a switch in an on/off fashion do you? No, the amount of braking is regulated by how hard you press the pedal.
In terms of our gliders, whether on the slope or a flat field, having the ability to slow down or speed up the model for landing using a proportional control (the throttle stick) gives the pilot the ultimate in control. It’s a revelation as you learn how to use them properly for the first few times, believe me!
Please Tim, if your model doesn’t have a motor, install Mike Shellim’s F3f template and make life for yourself really easy. For REF control, plug your rudder servo into the aileron output, then just follow the flap set up steps in the manual, not forgetting the elevator compensation set up as well. The correct down elevator compensation curve is very important.
Mike’s template also offers you the very useful thermal/climb mode, which will give you much better height gain in low lift then “wow” in a good thermal, even though you’re only using flaps. Again, this is already set up for you, you just have to input how much maximum camber you may want, then it is adjusted in flight by a knob or a slider of your choice if you want to do so.
If you choose to not take this advice, I’ll leave it up to others to try and help out
All the best!